Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Where to begin. I was in a relationship for four years . We live in a nice little trailer park and he lives across from me. He knew who I was when I moved in because my father was the grounds keeper of the park. Well he jumped out of his car and introduced himself to me. I wasn't attracted to him but the more I got to know him the more I liked him. He basically love bombed me and I fell in love. Then after a few months he changed. I was catching him in so many lies I broke up with him 3 months ago and 1 month later he moved in a new gf. So I have to see their happy life every day. I am not in love with him, but it still hurts knowing that I was cheated on. I feel old,depressed I am all alone in my house. My family doesn't want anything to do with me. I lost all my friends my kids don't want to be around me and they both were living with me including my granddaughter. I have lost 4 jobs because of him and his jealousy. He waits until my father dies to really lie and abuse me. I am just trying to be back to where I was before I met him. I want this to hurry before I lose more because of my depression. Thankfully though I know about psychopaths now.
- why have your children abandon you?
- I know that sounds weird but sometimes sociopaths are so depressed and miserable that they love to see other people the same way so him moving in his new girlfriend feels his energy every single day knowing that you can't stand it. So if you cannot move, my suggestion would be to start grounding yourself through meditation. Start writing a list of the perfect partner that you would love to have in your life and get back into the dating pool.
- do not let him have any more of your energy. Also it's time to get a job that you really love, and some new friends or reconnect with some of your old friends. The grass is never greener on the other side and he's probably doing the same thing to this woman who's living with him.