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Crazy GF update...

diemjs
diemjs
In case you were wondering, any of you, my stbx gf DID send those messages to me on purpose! I mentioned it to him and he apparently asked her. He told me she said she would stop.

So, I have told him to be careful because it sounds like she isnt playing with a full deck. And to watch her around kids. He said, I had to start shit by saying that. I said, no she started it by trying to start shit with me, and that now I am concerned if she is going to be around the kids.

Sounds like there is trouble in paradise, and if not now, it will soon be. Oh well!

I didnt do it!!!
diemjs
diemjs
One more thing, he texted me twice asking me to leave him alone, please.

He knows she is not right.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I cant help but to be courious about what the g/f is messageing you? can you say?
deleted_user
deleted_user
What did she message you? Guess I missed your previous post.
deleted_user
deleted_user
http://dailystrength.org/c/Breakups-Divorce/forum/2650269-crazy-gf-part-2

Earlier thread.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Think we've already established she's a fruit loop diemjs! LOL! I can't believe he said YOU were trying to start crap by saying what you did! WTF? I think they are both nuts. ;-)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yea my stbx's gf sent me texts she helped my stbx author texts that would beg me to take him back...a form of mockery. I could see through the manipulation I just never thought he would try so hard to be hurtful. I just don't discuss anything with him but kids stuff anymore.
diemjs
diemjs
Yeah, Im pretty much laughing and happy about the whole thing. For a couple of reasons...SHE started it, AND, this says to me that they arent as happy as they seem. Oh, I eventually want to see him happy, but not with a woman who will throw it in my face that she is with him.

Thanks MVH for doing that for me.

And by the way, it was a voice message, not a text.

She did own up to doing it, too, to the stbx. Im only sorry I said something, I would have liked to see what else she could come up with!