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What a long strange trip its been!
Last night, I got a message on my cell phone from the GF. Let me explain: Months ago, my stbx and I were in a fight, and he called the man I am dating telling him ALL KINDS of crazy stuff about me. So, being a woman, I got his gf # and called her! I had to leave a message. Heres where last night comes in...she apparently FORWARDED my message to her, to me! No missed call, just the message. Im telling you its been months since this happened. It was still warm out when it did. Thats how long ago it was.
What the hell is going on? Is she mad at him for saying something about me, and is she wanting to piss me off for some reason? I swear, the only conversation he and I have now is about the kids.
Was she drunk?
Do I say something to him? No, I dont think I should, I dont want to stoop to her level.
Do I say something to her? Knowing she is trying to get a reaction out of me.
If I dont, (which I really dont plan on it) She might stop knowing its not getting to me.
How do I react? What game is she playing?
Any ideas????
Crazy, huh?
Oh, she did go into the store where I work on Friday. I called out sick bc the kids were sick, so I wasnt there, but I know she was! What is she up to??????
Last night, I got a message on my cell phone from the GF. Let me explain: Months ago, my stbx and I were in a fight, and he called the man I am dating telling him ALL KINDS of crazy stuff about me. So, being a woman, I got his gf # and called her! I had to leave a message. Heres where last night comes in...she apparently FORWARDED my message to her, to me! No missed call, just the message. Im telling you its been months since this happened. It was still warm out when it did. Thats how long ago it was.
What the hell is going on? Is she mad at him for saying something about me, and is she wanting to piss me off for some reason? I swear, the only conversation he and I have now is about the kids.
Was she drunk?
Do I say something to him? No, I dont think I should, I dont want to stoop to her level.
Do I say something to her? Knowing she is trying to get a reaction out of me.
If I dont, (which I really dont plan on it) She might stop knowing its not getting to me.
How do I react? What game is she playing?
Any ideas????
Crazy, huh?
Oh, she did go into the store where I work on Friday. I called out sick bc the kids were sick, so I wasnt there, but I know she was! What is she up to??????
I also think she needs some drama. Something just aint right:):):):)
Let it go. If you respond then you become a part of the problem and if you respond then you do care. No response = I don't care!
Ok, just daydreaming a little.