Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi,
I've been away for a few weeks. Things have been going well up until earlier this week when it all came crashing back. I guess keeping busy with kids school and work is great until things get into a routine and slows down and then it all crashes in again. I've been feeling so sad and depressed about the end of the relationship - I don't want to be where I am now, but I don't want to go back to living the way I was living - I want him in my life, but I don't want him in my life becasue he's demonstrated that he cannot change and cannot make good choices. This sucks. It's like a death - hate that its happening but absolutely nothing I can do to fix it or change it.
I've been away for a few weeks. Things have been going well up until earlier this week when it all came crashing back. I guess keeping busy with kids school and work is great until things get into a routine and slows down and then it all crashes in again. I've been feeling so sad and depressed about the end of the relationship - I don't want to be where I am now, but I don't want to go back to living the way I was living - I want him in my life, but I don't want him in my life becasue he's demonstrated that he cannot change and cannot make good choices. This sucks. It's like a death - hate that its happening but absolutely nothing I can do to fix it or change it.
But not a clean one
We all have backslides....It is part of the long process of grieving.
hang in there
Be kind and gentle with yourself
Don't expect too much of yourself
Just keep getting through each day and talk when you can
It has been very difficult for me to heal and move on knowing he is still out there somewhere...........I so do not want this life he left me with.