Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So I've been dating this guy for 2 1/2 years. It's had its goods and bads but recently it's just gotten terrible. Part of me has always had feelings for this girl I was once friends with before my current boyfriend. I tried for months with my boyfriend and finally decided to leave him and be with that girl because I still wanted her deep down. So I moved in with her(because we used to live together and had no where else to live) and my ex would just text me everyday saying how upset he was and guilt tripping me to where I'm back with him and i dont want to be. I mean I care about him truly I do but I don't know how to make him understand.
we humans are all fffffffffffffffffing nuts, if we are in your shoes we see the ex-girlfiend and us "meant to together" and the boyfriend that won't let as clingy
yet if we were to put ourselves in your boyfrinds shoes we see you and us as "meant to be together"
how we choose to rationalize is hilarious
advice? tell your boyfriend that you never ever all in with him because inside she was beating in your heart, be brutally honest, so that he sees that truth, it will let him cut the cord from you, he won't like that you were phony in the relationship but you won't be setting him free in a phony way. in the long run you'll respect that about yourself