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orangeblast95
orangeblast95

I broke up with my long time girlfriend of almost two years. She cheated on me and I did not speak to her for a month. I blocked off all contact she had with me and she couldn't take it anymore. She confronted me at the college we both go to and admitted to me that she was a complete idiot for what she did.She was still with the guy until today supposively according to her because she told me that she broke up with him. I am not sure whether or not that may be true. I am trying to figure out how to take this into the right direction with her. I do love her deeply and it has not been easy to get over the pain that she brought me. She looked into my eyes and said to me that she wanted me back. At that time, I felt that she meant it. I am wanting help with how I should approach this situation. For the record, I want HELP not bashing me for doing the unthinkable. 

Ghostdancer
Ghostdancer
I guess it depends what you want or expect from this new? relationship with her. You express being unsure as to her break up status as to how broke up is she actually. Basic questions of trust are all your talking about which should match in the relationship. Ask her what hers are and share yours. After that put the wheels back on and grow more together. Cement and bond together as individuals.
Johnny29
Johnny29
i agree with ghostdancer. Also Actions speak louder than words. Remember to Love yourself first.
Biatta
Biatta
Take her back!!!!!!!!! Just let it another chance. Believe in what she said! It is truth!
No matter what was in the past, now she wants to be with you. Don't miss the opportunity to be with the person you love.
She massed up and made a wrong choice in the past. It is not relevant now.
May be through this mistake of her, she realized how deeply she loves you.
Be happy!