Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hello Everyone,
I have been going through a lot the past month. My girlfriend cheated on me with another man after sating for almost two years. This completely broke me in two. I have been trying my best to get over her and move onto another girl, which I found another that I will have a date with on Friday. The ex-girlfriend is still with the guy but is fooling around with me. I go to college and she will not leave me alone because she knows that I treat her the way she should be treated. She has been kissing, hugging, and even making sexual advances on me. She made out with me in the car today and was all over me. I want to get her back as much as people say I am crazy to take a cheater back. However, before her doing this such horrible act, I had future goals such as marriage and children with this woman. Until she did what she did, she made my heart happy and made me feel like I could be myself with her. She keeps saying that she loves me and wants to get back with me and make the relationship stronger than ever. In her note, she says that she is truly sorry for what she has done to me and wants to do everything possible to win my love back. I am wanting to win her back and fix it between us. I am wanting help with getting her back. I DO NOT want any negative comments about not being able to get her back.
The only problem is, once you take her back you set a precedent. She'll always know you're so desperate for whatever she's offering that she holds all the cards. That means she can pretty much do as she pleases and like a chump, you'll just hoping and praying she comes flying back into your arms.
She'll probably be happy to keep shoveling you loads of sweet manure your way. Let's face it, you're pretty gullible and will buy pretty much any excuse and she did say she loves you. Everyone knows the best way to prove to someone that you love them is by screwing other dudes. Besides, she'll always need a place to land between adventures, cause that's how cheaters operate. You can be her ace in the hole so to speak. Some guys just don't mind sharing, I suppose. There's no need to bother with inconsequential things like dignity and self-esteem, right? Got a website for you chump. You really need it!
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