Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Life sucks, I really need a good chat room to move on. My second husband (separated) can't handle my boys. Long story but I am trying not to go crazy. All of us have a fault in the problems. Husband will not let it go. My sons dont want a father, they have one (deadbeat and not around). They only want a step. My husband good hearted man but very much wanted a son. (he has three girls) My sons cant handle the smothering he has done. I tried not to be in the middle but they put me their. So many mistakes on both of our parts. He made me move out cause he could not get them to love him. He made me choose and that was wrong. I am so lost. My head wont shut up. I let my boys hurt him and I cant forgive myself. They were hurt by their father and could not take another father figure. I should of gotton them help.
Now how do i move on without him. Love him so, but need my boys too. They hated how he raised his voice, and had to get his way. My boys are on own, and my apartment is lonely. Need good chat rooms. Not ready to date since that was the second loss. done with love. help.
Not saying my boys was easy but he had three girls and my boys were so not love dovie like girls and he smuthered youngest. My boys rather walk away then try to be a family. Wrong, not me at all, I love big family. I am a enabler as he says it. I didn't correct them which I should have. I am very laid back. now all I want to do is show my boys what they did wrong and what I did wrong but they don't need or want him. I want him to see his ways needed to change to let go a little but nothing. All my fault, he says. I could not give up my boys for him even though I don't see the youngest he is in college but I am telling him everything he does wrong now. no hold bar to anyone. I have been to counseling he wont nor will the youngest. now need back in the chat game to get my mind on something else.