After a long relationship, parting always hurts and destroys us from within.In addition to all this there is also a feeling of jealousy which further strengthens this effect.Try on time to move to the parents if there is such an opportunity. Then you need to distract yourself. Find yourself a very strong lighthouse. Which will take a lot of free time.I had a situation I met my ex-wife on ukReine.com after 3 years of marriage we quarreled and she returned to her country.It was saved by the fact that I was carried away by extreme sports

I am in a similar situation, but she is in a full-fledged relationship with someone while we are 'separated' in the same house. The only way I have been able to keep it together somewhat is to remind myself that there is something wrong with some one who would have a relationship while living with an ex, and something wrong with someone who would be with someone who is still living with their ex.

I was in a very similar situation to you, married for over ten years. She cheated on me, we separated twice and are now divorced. We were separated for a year before finally getting divorced. She made it very obvious she was dating other men. It didn’t make me feel good. I became very depressed and found it difficult to do even the simplest tasks. I took some time off work to pull myself together and completely stayed away from alcohol for fear of making any regretful decisions.

The end result was my ex, who is an alcoholic, made a series of bad decisions related to alcohol, including getting arrested. She has also blown through numerous unhealthy relationships. I on the other hand have concentrated on my self and my child, and feel a little better every day.

It’s hard to accept that you have been rejected. It’s also scary, the idea of starting a new life, new place to live, and possibly new relationships. Your future seems uncertain. Concentrate on one thing at a time. Not drinking and moving out of the home you shared should be top priorities. Make new routines and do something just for yourself. The peace of mind and new connections will follow in time.

I totally get the getting out of the house thing. I couldn't and had to stay one year in the same house while he dragged the divorce on and on. I was starting to think what I hoped would be amicable would go into year 2, but it ended just a couple days before a year's time. Good thing, because the judge said if we couldn't wrap things up, we were going to start trial the next week. It was hell. I survived by hyper-focusing on proving financial abuse on his part, it was about the only goal I had at that time. I avoided his physical presence as much as possible. Went out when he was home, planned my home time for when I thought he'd be out. Even was relieved to work nights for three weeks to keep away from him. It really is a drain on your psyche, but it will be for the short term, you have to try to remember that. This too shall pass. Keep looking for apartments, let that be your one big goal.

Talking things out can help you clear your thoughts and especially with a counselor. Dealing with all that's happen can be overwhelming and working through the hurt will allow you to move forward without carrying all that baggage into the next relationship. Take it one day at a time.