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Committ me, Part 2

diemjs
diemjs
For those of you who responded earlier to my post, thank you! What each and every one of you said was very insightful and true.

NOW, he just called me and said, "one of these days we are going to lock ourselves in a room and hash this out." AAACCCKKKK!!!

I actually said fine, name the time and place. I think I am ready for this. But what do you all think this means???????
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh wow...
That could really been open to many interpretations. Its never over till its over though. What would you like to see happen?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Think it means you should by some restraints and some superglue and attatch his balls to his ass..:)

Just a thought!
_Savery1

Seriously.Not real sure but i am here for you nonetheles.
diemjs
diemjs
#1...I think I want understanding, on both our parts. Dont really think I want to get back with him. I am on such a roller coaster! This so sucks!
deleted_user
deleted_user
it means your just going to yell and scream at each other louder. it means he is not going to let you out until you agree with him. honey, trust me, just stop fighting.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree with Chrurop and I would recommend not seeing him or talking to him unless you absolutely have to. Stay away and use email ;-) It will be a lot easier on you. I am just now bouncing back from seeing my stbx on Tuesday and I didn't even talk to him.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My first reply was going to be sarcastic,, as in who get to swallow the key!
But,, changed my mind and want to say,, I agree with #4 & #5.. please just stay away from him! There is really no use in the fighting,, specially if he is controlling, cause he will keep up til he gets you to bend. Then you will have to live with it!
deleted_user
deleted_user
lock yourselves in the room AFTER the divorce papers are signed! then beat the hell out of him for all the hell he has put you thru!...then just walk away with your pride and spirit...the end! :)
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