Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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1111volcano 05/29/2016

OK we have broken up and left each other on more than one occasion in the 4.5 years we been together. But tonight was the last straw. I may not be the best person in the world bit I can't take anymore. He's an alcoholic, when he goes to work right before he goes in he drinks mouthwash cause of the alcohol cpntint. He has hep C, he is addicted to porn and would pick that over me. Hes a lier and a manipulative lier . every word that comes out of his mouth is a lie and I can't trust him. I'm so done w/ him I can't take no more.

mirandac 05/29/2016

Sounds like a good plan, it does not get better.

You can only fix yourself not him.

Sending you a warm Hug

(((( volcano ))))

Aronia 05/30/2016

You ve tried really hard, but he must help himself. You can still be his friend, but you can't be his romantic partner. This is not a life.
Hug

jojored 05/30/2016

I'm so sorry. I would not suggest staying friends, as you guys have yo-yo'd before, I think cold-turkey no contact is best. Besides, would you want a manipulative liar as a friend? No, and your teens don't need any more exposure to him either. Listen to your instincts and be well.

lamarwilson 05/31/2016

Let him go. Friendship is based off trust. I wouldn't even be friends with him, much less in a relationship.

ClearDay1 05/31/2016

Jojored has a good point.

I wouldn't even want a manipulative liar as a friend, never mind a romantic or life partner.

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