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when i think of cheating, i don't think of just sex. even the act of giving oneself permission to lust for another woman is cheating.
a man who is lusting is supposed to be catching himself and seeing that there is a red flag present. there is something wrong at home and he has to fix that with his woman.
there are so many so-called little things in a marriage that are acts of cheating. the wife who runs her husband down behind his back. the husband who is blowing money on stupid stuff when he is supposed to be saving some. lots of acts of cheating.
if we can just learn to watch for temptations to cheat in the smallest ways, we won't have to worry about the big things ever happening that destroy marriages and traumatize spouses.
now, if i can find a good woman who thinks like i do on the subject, maybe i have a good chance at having a romance worth having.
thoughts? comments?
a man who is lusting is supposed to be catching himself and seeing that there is a red flag present. there is something wrong at home and he has to fix that with his woman.
there are so many so-called little things in a marriage that are acts of cheating. the wife who runs her husband down behind his back. the husband who is blowing money on stupid stuff when he is supposed to be saving some. lots of acts of cheating.
if we can just learn to watch for temptations to cheat in the smallest ways, we won't have to worry about the big things ever happening that destroy marriages and traumatize spouses.
now, if i can find a good woman who thinks like i do on the subject, maybe i have a good chance at having a romance worth having.
thoughts? comments?
I have found myself in some romantic fantasies during my marriage. I don't think that is cheating. I have seen that he has looked at porn. I don't consider that as cheating.
To me, cheating is having a relationship with some one else or having sex with another.
No one is perfect. I don't expect my partner to be perfect.
Its not hard to decipher cheating.. if its something you are willing to lie about or a topic your not going to openly share with your spouse.. its cheating.