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Anyone want to agree with me that Cheaters are the lowest form of sub-human waste of oxygen that exists?
I mean really....Cheaters go outside of their relationship to settle their "needs" without regards to whom it may hurt. Often they lie to their spouses, the OW or OM, and everyone else around them. I have no disdain for them because what they do is so entirely low that they can't even see past their nose to realize that they are destorying someone else's life, a relationship that they committed to willfully, and if there are kids involved it is even worse.
There is no excuse that is acceptable for cheating....NONE! There are no excuses for cheaters....they are lower than the dog shit that sticks to the bottom of your shoe and lower than the fly that licks it off the bottom of your shoe.
I don't care if there are issues in the relationship. What gives them the right to go outside of the relationship, spin a fabric of lies, and do what pleases them? If there is a problem with the relationship communicate about it, work it out, or get the hell out before you go and sow your wild oats!
I am sorry for this vent but this problem seems more and more common and it really burns me up. Reading Nova's post lit this fire.
CHEATERS SUCK!
I mean really....Cheaters go outside of their relationship to settle their "needs" without regards to whom it may hurt. Often they lie to their spouses, the OW or OM, and everyone else around them. I have no disdain for them because what they do is so entirely low that they can't even see past their nose to realize that they are destorying someone else's life, a relationship that they committed to willfully, and if there are kids involved it is even worse.
There is no excuse that is acceptable for cheating....NONE! There are no excuses for cheaters....they are lower than the dog shit that sticks to the bottom of your shoe and lower than the fly that licks it off the bottom of your shoe.
I don't care if there are issues in the relationship. What gives them the right to go outside of the relationship, spin a fabric of lies, and do what pleases them? If there is a problem with the relationship communicate about it, work it out, or get the hell out before you go and sow your wild oats!
I am sorry for this vent but this problem seems more and more common and it really burns me up. Reading Nova's post lit this fire.
CHEATERS SUCK!
If you are unhappy in your relationship or marriage, then GET OUT!!
Also I will never understand if you know someone is married why would you even want to get involved. I've gotten hit on by my married men and I'm so turned off, I usually tell them to get lost and to go back to their wives, or I usually tell them I hope their wives divorce your sorry ass.
I still have not forgiven my stbxs (one of many) skanks. She KNEW he was married, he told her he had a wife and child at home and gave her some sad,pathetic drunken story. She still went ahead with it for the 5 weeks he was in her state on military business. He was even so kind as to knock her up while he was there and pay for her abortion. He even admitted this to me after I found out about it I dont know that i can ever forgive that. In the meantime, he ditched his own flesh and blood child to live out his swinger lifestyle.
I think there is a very special place reserved for them both. I know who she is and even have all her contact info. Ive been sooo tempted to send her a nice email saying thank you (seriously) for screwing my husband. The veil has been lifted and I can finally see.