Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
some of you do remember me of years ago, when I couldn't decide what to do when my stbx had his girlfriend....It took over 12 years to get the strength to get him out. That was 5 months ago. It has been so hard, some days worse than others...some not so bad.
My social worker said I should let him know I was in hospital which was a bad mistake...It put more tension on me. As a result, I cancelled the operation just for now. I realize that the sw had good intentions, but why should I let my abuser know my plans? And when you are in a hospital, your defenses are down. So, I cancelled it, not just for him, but for me, because I think with this group, I will be in a better state of mind in 3 months from now, when the surgery will happen.
My dog is sick, prob from the stress, also, her liver enzines are up, which could mean a mass, or nothing....testing for dog is expensive.
Am in a better frame of mind today....Stanley steamer is coming over.
husb wants to get together with me, seems his g/f left him again (she will be back). Husb got 0 in divorce, I got almost everything.
And he is getting some tax bill.Like who cares. He is an abusive man, the cops actually had him on the floor, and he was screaming....Can you imagine? And this fk bast. wants me back....No way.
My social worker said I should let him know I was in hospital which was a bad mistake...It put more tension on me. As a result, I cancelled the operation just for now. I realize that the sw had good intentions, but why should I let my abuser know my plans? And when you are in a hospital, your defenses are down. So, I cancelled it, not just for him, but for me, because I think with this group, I will be in a better state of mind in 3 months from now, when the surgery will happen.
My dog is sick, prob from the stress, also, her liver enzines are up, which could mean a mass, or nothing....testing for dog is expensive.
Am in a better frame of mind today....Stanley steamer is coming over.
husb wants to get together with me, seems his g/f left him again (she will be back). Husb got 0 in divorce, I got almost everything.
And he is getting some tax bill.Like who cares. He is an abusive man, the cops actually had him on the floor, and he was screaming....Can you imagine? And this fk bast. wants me back....No way.
Seems he's looking at what he doesn't have, and trying to reach to gather it back up. Blah him. He's abusive and received what he was entitled to. If you ever begin to weaken or waiver, come back here and read this post again.
I would not get together with him. I would have him email me what he wanted me to review. Also I wouldn't of let him know about the surgery. If you have a friend or someone who can help you or support than I would do that but that is ridicules. I know the SW had good intentions.
He is a crackpot. It's like his brain isn't functioning....Years ago, a social worker, who upon finding out my stbx's broker was mentally challanged, she asked me how his mother was, and I said, although she was a wonderful woman, she was somewhat strange. She, then, said, "well, maybe it was his genes".
Anyway, my domestic s/w called him up, and said he would end up in jail if he bothers me, seems to me, I got to call him up again.
Now I got to get another lock on the back door, to be completely safe.
I am so depressed, I ask God to take me.
My dog is also depressed. The 2 cats we had, are living with X, because they had worms, and I didn't want dog to get it. I think she is missing them. Also, I knew in back of my mind, I can not lift a 17 lb cat plus 3 extra lbs for carrier, and the other cat was no lightweight either. I was thinking about calling X so cat could have a playdate with dog, but then I would have to call him...The sooner he is gone from my life, the better off I will be..Got to make friends somewhere.