Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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KourtneyHart 11/29/2011

I had to go to a food bank for the first time in my life because my kids father doesnt seem to care about us at all... I'm having a hard time finding a job and cant afford childcare. I feel pretty hopeless.. Christmas is coming up and I dont feel like dealing with it.. I have no money and the a**hole will be here on leave & I dont want to see him... I keep imagining how horrible it will be if he decides to bring the OW here to CA for his leave.. I hope he doesnt cuz I dont think I could handle it.. I wish I could fast foreward to better days.. :(

lovingmyselfirst 11/29/2011

hang in there, you are not alone....nothing shameful to get food stamps if needed. you will in time be able to support yourself and your kids. try to take it one day at a time. any way you could go spend the holidays with a relative out of town, so you wont even have the temptation to take your H back?

Peace...

deleted_user 12/01/2011

Food banks feed plenty of good people, single moms, university students...

And people who can, want to help when they donate food, so imagine your neighbours are pitching in to help you over the hump.

hang in there.

deleted_user 12/01/2011

I can't say I know what you are going through, but I can say that we have to be grateful for what we have, not fret about what we don't have.

You have your health, your children and have a food bank that still is giving out food (a lot can't do business anymore).

Keep up the faith and things will get better. People are thinking about you!

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