Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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baby6girl 08/19/2016

i been with a man for ten years we had our ups and down. Me and him use to fight a lot we hardly agree to stuff he use to hang and talk to his ex and he thought it was not a problem I really didn't trust him but I loved him and I thought he loved me but recently he told me he wanted to move on he didn't love me anymore and yes it hurt but I knew it was time to move on but I was still holding on trying to not let go hoping he will change but even tho we broke up I can't stop thinking about him and I still love him I really want to get over him so u can move on sometimes I wish I never met him

MTGrl 08/20/2016

I wish I had never met my ex, too.

baby6girl 08/20/2016

Yea cause this is really hard to move on

Heyceemylebret 08/20/2016

You cant wait for him to change. You deserve someone who is going to love you in return. Use this time to get back into the you. It will help to keep yourself active...hobbies...friends..etc. its going to take time and patience but it'll happen. You will move on. We are resilient people. We can adapt, we can change, we can move on. You can move on.

lonelygal27 08/20/2016

i don't regret meeting my ex .. have some lovely memories but just wish I had not dragged on too long. Just be determined and think it is the best.

baby6girl 08/20/2016

But I thought u did love me untill he said he didn't love me anymore and is moving on to someone else like I feel useless I'm always getting hurt by men like I'm tired of it I don't think I will be able to find love again or anybody yea I will move on but it seem I will never move on it seem so hard

mirandac 08/20/2016

I would work with a therapist to help you move on
And Thru this. Let yourself grieve your losses, it's
Grief of your dreams and hopes. Grief takes As long
as it takes. Let yourself heal before Getting into a new
relationship that generally will cause More problems in
the long term. HUGS

baby6girl 08/20/2016

Thank u but therapist are so expensive and I can't afford one and yes it feel like a big loss to me cause I been with him for 10 years and now he want to leave me for someone else it hurts a lot I feel I wasted my time with someone when I could been doing something else and I don't feel the same anymore and my appetite not the same anymore this is really taking a toll on me I don't believe I will be the same anymore

Unlucky6 08/21/2016

Find things to keep your mind busy. If he doesn't want to stay together, than he doesn't deserve you. You just need to let time pass and stay busy. I know it's hard, but there's no other way. You can do it. Have faith.

Aquamarine 08/22/2016

I totally understand what you're going through. I feel the exactly the same. I wish you the best!!

baby6girl 08/22/2016

Thank u I have gotten better my appetite came back a little bit I still think about it but it's a process but I will get through this just have to keep active

bluebird93 08/22/2016

I'm so sorry. Having an unfaithful partner is the worst feeling ever. Once you get through this, you will be so thankful to be separated from him.

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