Today I was cleaning stuff out around the house and came across a notebook my ex boyfriend had left here once. When we were still together I had asked him if he still needed it (all the pages had been used, he used it for work) and he said yes but never took it with him. After we split up I asked if he wanted it and he said no.
Before I threw it away I was flipping through it and found a note that had the name of a hotel in a nearby city along with a color and make of a car. I instantly assumed he met someone at the hotel who drove that car. I was furious. The pages are dated, he used one page per day so I looked at the calendar to see when it was. It was a holiday weekend when he had his youngest daughter who was in middle school.
I photographed the page and sent it along with a couple of not-so-nice text messages. I called my sister and was telling her about it and in the middle of telling her I remember one of his older daughter's cars had died on that holiday and he bought her another car. That note was about a car to look at for her.
I am so ashamed and embarrassed and feel horrible for jumping to that conclusion. I sent another message apologizing profusely but I still feel so bad. Sometimes I wish I wasn't so impulsive when I'm angry. :(