Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I have posted my situation yesterday. I found out his reason for keeping our 7 yr old away from me. I have fibromyalgia, arthritis and piriformis syndrome. some days the pain is too much, I have pain meds (tramadol) he is now calling me a junkie who is addicted to pills. Now he is spreading lies all over the place. I'm am starting to wish I wouldn't of tried to leave him. This is so bad that I don't know how I will be able to get through it! I hate meds, I hate taking them. They are destroying my body, I have tried to change my diet to help with my pain and I was able to take less tramadol and less often, it was actually working. But my soon to be ex husband would yell, scream, complain when I would put those foods on the list. After about 4 times of that I gave up and went back to pain and my meds. Most of the time my meds just take the edge off my pain, bad pain days make me laid up but I'm told I'm lazy. Anyone who has fibromyalgia knows what I feel like most of the time
I wouldn't have changed my diet so he wouldn't stop screaming and being a dick. I wouldn't have done that even for my ex, because its MY BODY and LIFE that is at risk. Anyone who doesn't have enough care or concern for my well being, isn't someone who is going to provide any care or kindness to me when I am at my worst.
And who needs a partner who doesnt care that changing my eating habits, workout habits, or any kind of habit to keep me living longer or provide a pain free life.
No one needs that and certainly not you.
Get back on your diet, get yourself stronger cus it appears he is going to be a dick throughout this process and you will need your health to battle his nonsense and keep the child out of his hands full time.