Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi my name is Ricky I’m 54 I’m new to the site needed someone to talk to I been married for thirty years we did almost everything together we have 3 gran kids that I love to death I never forget her birthday or anniversary will let get to the point she just turned 50 and we went out for thanksgiving to a really nice dinner that we always go then we go to the movies but instead she want to go visit a old friend of ours so we had a good time came home we had sex watch a movie in then sleep the it look like something was wrong and I ask her she came right out and said she didn’t love me any more and I said did I do something she no just don’t love you I gave this woman tons of chances I caught her 4 times with other men I no what a dum fuck but I loved her and had to small sons now I’m getting the shit I should have never spoiled her and always helping out in the house and a lot more oh we always went out on my bike every weekend. Help
You overlooked your wife's indiscretions several times and didn't hold her accountable.
If my husband let me slide like that, I think I would lose respect for him. If I overlooked my husband's infidelities numerous times, took him back and made nice, I would lose respect for myself.
It is difficult to love someone for whom you have little respect...
You did everything right and she still wasn't feeling it for you. I know you've been together a long time and you are very attached to your wife, but she must not feel the same way. I believe she has been feeling that way for a long time, thus all the affairs. Maybe it's time to accept that she truly does not want to be with you and that you are wasting your life on a woman who's never going to treat you right. I'll bet their are thousands of women who would be tickled to death to have what she's throwing away with both hands. Think carefully about what you say and do next, for your future happiness hangs in the balance.