Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am new here. In hopes of being able to talk about things i can not talk about with family and friend’s anymore. They told me repeatedly not get back into the same relationship. It has turned out to be the same thing for the 5th time. Im embarressed and heartbroken all in one. You get treated so wonderfully for your first month and then little by little things go back to how they were
cbhmom
You can’t help who you love, I took mine back and five years later he crushed me again. I’m sorry your hurting I wish I had better answers
Mom215
I'm in the same boat. I've been with the same person for 15 years. We have been through it all. He has cheated on me over and over. He has been in jail more than once. But still I love him. I have never stepped out on him even though I know he done it to me. We recently split on Saturday and I can't fight the feeling I want him to stay. A part of me know it's for the best cause we fight alot but I only know how to love and take care of him. His children will miss him dearly
brokenheart94
You love who you love. But you also have to know what you deserve. You deserve someone who will not hurt you and will treat you the way you need to be treated
Taurus74
He leaves all mad and stays gone on his off day. This has happened last two weeks. He says I nag. The only thing that i so call nag about is getting to the point each week where i cant keep it in anymore. The fact he will not be affectionate in any way with me. Everytime we get back together he is so loving then little by little gets back to this. This last time we got back together he said he felt so of our problems were due to living in this house that shared with my late husband. I aggreed this time to sell my house. But only after he got another one. We agreed then last night said I probably dont need to sell my house cause we r right back to this stage. I went through heck convincing my adult children to give him another chance and had to make out like most of it was my fault. He said everything but he wanted to out right leave yesterday in text but then just wanted to come home get a shower and go to bed and didn’t want to argue anymore. Then text me something i said I needed. Im on egg shells and hate it
Fadedgypsy
He's so loving in the beginning because he knows how to manipulate you. You are there at his beck and call. He knows this and knows how to get what he wants out of you. You need to start thinking of your self and what you are worth. If you keep doing what youve always done you'll keep getting what you always got. Walk away while you can he's not going to be any different no matter what he says
TotalRegret
Hi Taurus. I totally agree with brokenheart94 - you deserve better! He's not going to change, but you can change your situation. You shouldn't feel guilty or stupid about giving him other chances, but you need to set your boundaries regarding what you're prepared to accept in terms of his behavior. TR
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