Ok, well, because I wont take 2nd to his X-wife who is dependant on him for rides and part of her rent (he rented her the house for less than the mortgage, to help her out. Yet he never has money to treat me to a night out, or anything nice. Our big night out was the 7 dollar drive in. The X is at the mall shopping and needs a ride while we are in the middle of something, he leaves. So i laid it on the line today and told him if she takes first place all the time i'm not having it. I see no reason he needs to drive her around at her every whim. I'm sick of it. She is insanely jealous of me since she knew we were together, Refused to accept me and demanded he doesnt want me there if she is there, etc... So i told him if she is first i dont think he cares about me and my feelings. He just gets mad, so i told him well, you choose to do whatever she wants? Go ahead, because you dont care about me, so i'm not happy like that. He said to my face i dont love you. I said see not only you back her up on everything, you dont love me now because i dont like the situation and i tell you how it makes me feel. But you only care about yourself, your feelings. I'm so sick of his X wife, his grown daughter, worthless, she got married, had a baby, works in retail, very overweight, she lived with him till recently, and nope she didnt move out with hubby on her own, she moved in with Mama, she is 25 and married, with a kid almost 2 years old and she cant even take care of any responsibities, lives on dad or moms back. my son who is 13 is more mature than her, she whines to get what she wants. I think they may be retarded because his X wife was his first cousin, blood relatives had 3 kids and none are ok. The 26 yr old son, is hooked on pot and wont come home now because his dad talked to him about it. He has been beat down by feeling disappointing to both parents, so he smokes pot so he doesnt feel the family crap the always have going on. Anyhow, i know i'm going to go through pain, I already am, i want to cry, but i think its best for me to move on because the drama they create in my life is too much to handle, it stresses me out and i always feel uncomfortable unless he is at my house or we are alone. He is not all that, i dont know why i fought to stay with him for 3 years, he is overweight, selfish, everything was his way or the highway and i just am fed up. i'm moving away, and i dont want to ever go back to him, he is not good for me, the relationship sucked.
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