I'm really sorry to hear that. Time does heal all wounds and it will get better after time goes on.

I really hope so, thanks for your comment:)

i totally understand. i really hope things look up. going thru a similar ordeal

I too am sorry for you. May I be inquisitive? How old is she? Someone that wont leave family seems to be pretty young. Or there are other issues in the household (someone sick / dying?). There seems to be more going and the little you provided doesn't give us enough info to really help.

She is 22, im 25. So her grandmother passed 2 weeks ago and she was depressed, so what i thought was her making the decisions because she is depressed, because she started thinking what she would do when her parents got sick or just thinking ahead in general, which i understand, but when i suggested that we can find a way to try to make it work she wont even give it a chance, there was nothing wrong with the relationship before till this last week of her being depressed, so i never saw a break up coming.

So i dont really know what to do, could it be just because shes depressed or should i just move on...

Personally i would keep working on yourself
And give her space. The healthier you are the
Healthier you attract for a partner.

She might not be ready to commit or want to
Commit, You just never know. Maybe there is
someone Else. You will know that soon enough.

Give it time. There is no sense in jumping the
Gun and being impatient. Try for no contact,
HUGS

here for you - you're stronger than you realize

Wow, I'm so sorry to hear this. My boyfriend recently blindsided and broke up with me too! I get you! You could see a future and everything and that all was smashed! This is some things that have helped me. First, contact '741-741' and text "start"...this is an online counselor through text that you can talk to, let out all your feelings, and they will give you feedback and ways to help your problem! Especially if most/all of your friends aren't giving you the help you need, the online counselor is really a good way to figure things through. Another thing I find that helps is wriiting. Write a letter to her about how you feel and talk about all your feelings and get them all out on the piece of paper. But don't send it to her! But most importantly, moving on helps. Time is the key to moving on. It's gonna take a while. Try not to talk to her. Try to distance yourself and try not to even think about her! I know this is a popular cliche but there are plenty fish in the sea for you! Keep looking! You will find someone, but you won't if you keep dwelling on your past. I know that feeling of not wanting to love again, but the only reason you get that feeling is that you don't want to get hurt again! So hopefully this helps ;)

Yes it does help, thank you:)