Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My boyfriend of six years broke up with me. He has slowly been sabotaging our relationship over the last two years. I don't know what to think really. I know my part in the situation. im trying to process is this really over. I love him. It's very confusing. We have both been married before. His ex of 30 years cheated on him so he has a lot of trust issues. I live two hours away now and actually was planning to transfer closer to him. His family hates me bc he tells them things not true to get sympathy. I just wonder if time will either help us get back together. Or it will help me get over pain. I'm trying to organize my apt. I've been pretty much holed up in my apt. Sad. Don't really want to talk to family or friends. They all hate him bc he's always doing this to me. I'm so depressed. I just don't understand why someone sabotages their relationships
Increasing bad years with my ex. Things were
Toxic toward the end. It was Not the way i wanted
Or intended my Life to ever be with him.
I went to alanon for me to get better and i found
my own therapist, I even liked my MC a lot even
though it did no Good by that time. I went to divorce
care multiple Times.
My ex had old addiction issues and we both came
From similar backrounds. The old and sick parts
played out eventually And no more normal seeming
left in our relationship. He does attend AA now, too
Late in the game for us, he refused to work on us
even with us Both in recovery. He found a GF there
No big surprise.
My journey now and has been all about me getting
Better and to keep healing and growing. I have been
no Contact for 20 months and moved out of town post
Divorce. It is one day to a time for me, HUGS