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Last night was really bad for me. I got home last night to find that my 2 1/2 year old pit bull had decided to destroy things in my absence. The dog that had never before touched a stuffed animal chewed several of them. An otter my ex got for me at the zoo, the bear from when we went to Niagara Falls, and the large giraffe that I convinced my sister to buy for me the week after he was arrested so I would have something to sleep with. I have a friend who is going to try to salvage my giraffe, and if I amputate a leg the otter can be saved as well but my bear was a total loss.
This may seem like a trivial thing and in a way I can see that in the grand scheme of things it isn't something vital, but I had a breakdown last night. I sat on my floor and could do nothing but cry. So much pain came from the relationship and now things that could remind me of the good times are gone as well. Today it is better but it still hurts.
This may seem like a trivial thing and in a way I can see that in the grand scheme of things it isn't something vital, but I had a breakdown last night. I sat on my floor and could do nothing but cry. So much pain came from the relationship and now things that could remind me of the good times are gone as well. Today it is better but it still hurts.
i get it..trust me i get it
and ya know what..i'm betting 99% of the other ppl on here get it.
it hurts til it doesnt hurt..things are gonna set ya off..you just deal with things til the triggers get less.
mine are almost gone, but there are still a few that hit me.
one day both of us will have no tears for whats gone, but til then - let em flow
I do have to agree with Queen, I actually got rid of alot of things and put them away. To hard to have around. LIke pictures, gifts, etc.
As far as the giraff that was from your sister, not him right, so if anything you are sad about something your sister gave you, not him. So to me that's almost healing cries, think of it that way...your sister has been there for you, he hasn't. So with that, go out and treat yourself to something that will remind you of the special bond you and your sister hold. Hugs to you sweetie.
((((AGGIE)))))