Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I was with one man for 6 years. I just found this group and wanted to give it a shot. Me and my boyfriend of 6 years left each other in September and I started talking to a old friend. He is a much better man than my oldboyfriend Lee. Jerry is the one I'm currently with and he proposed to me 3 weeks after we where officially together. I miss Lee but he abused me everyday mentally and physically. Why do I feel so guilty for being happy? Jerry makes me the happiest woman alive but I feel like shit for leaving Lee.
Abusive guy is not going to change. Oh he will for what's called the honeymoon period he will say and do all the right things. But let me promise you this if you go back with in a month you will have the gates of hell unleashed on you worse then he ever was before because you are now tainted by another man in his eyes. You will be lucky to live through it. So many arent. This man has conditioned you to feel like he's the only one who knows and cares for you. It's a lie. I know it's damn hard to not go back. You think if you love him enough and don't upset him be more. Like what he wants you can love him into changing. Sweetheart it's never going to happen.
I'm sure new guy is amazing but he's gonna get hurt you have got to find your own inner strength and get to where you don't need someone to validate you or be that strength of nothing else slow things down with him but stay the hell away from the ex.. Don't become a statistic please