Ok, he is too involved with his X wife as far as i'm concerned and i feel disrespected because since i have been with this guy his X wife has used the children to use him and i'm sick of it. Plus she has let it be known that she will not have me around if she comes to his house, which is why i feel disrespected, he even expects me to stay away because she is there or its my fault there is trouble and she is trippin on me, along with his grown daughter who is close to her mom. They have both yelled at me, told him i dont want her here when i'm here, there has been so many instances that i feel he is disrepecting me by letting them treat me this way and not accepting he has moved on and has a girlfriend. Yesterday was the first day of school for his middle school aged daughter and he took the X-wife with him and the daughter for the first day. I think if she wants to take the daughter he should say ok, fine, you want to take her go ahead, but he drives her to the school and back home afterwards. The X never got a license, before he used to say i have to go take my X to the grocery store, when she has two grown kids who drive and i think they should taxi mom around, not him. He gets mad at me when i tell him how i feel, he says i cause the problems, because i came to his house once when she was there. I did it because i know she says i dont want her here when i'm here, and i think if she doesnt like it she shouldn't come to his house. On the other hand i think he asks for trouble because he goes to her house on a daily basis, saying he has to do this and that for his daughter, he always says it for my daughter. But he actually lets the daughter manipulate for the X on all these excuses to get him over there. I believe the intention of the X is to do this on purpose because she does not want him to be with anyone, i dont think it would matter if it was me or anyone else. The grown daughter and the X did the same thing to this girl he was with last summer. And he had faught with me because i knew the girl was after him and she disrespected me real bad along with the grown daughter once again, and he chose to have her stay the weekend so i broke up with him, i told him she stays we are through. He chose her. He ended up with her all summer and when it didnt work out he wanted me back. Since then we have had many rocky roads, he is angry i ended up wtih a guy a couple months after he did that to me last summer. Why i took him back i dont know, i should have kept on with my life, i was becomming happy again. But anyhow, he says me being with the other guy makes us even, i dont think so, it was totally different to me, because we were definitly not together anymore. Anyhow, i dont want to put up with him catering to the X, am i wrong? I would feel different if she didn't hate me from the beginning just because she found out i was his girlfrlend. Also he hid from his kids and her for 2 years when we were first together, so i felt like he wasn't for real with me, i broke up with him over that, then he let the cat out of the bag and we continued to be together, but nothing has ever solved these problems and i cant help my feelings, screw her, respect me, thats how i feel. I dont think he should have any involvement with her even with the child because of her interference. But i do believe he protects her over me, i'm always the one he gets mad at, he says my feelings are wrong.
help anyone???? advice:::????
help anyone???? advice:::????
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