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Im a seething here! You wouldnt believe what that SOB said to me today! Maybe you will.
Keep this in mind. He asked for the kids Wed, Thurs, Sat and Sun nights. NOT Friday. He is taking his F-ING GF to Baltimore, three hours away, to see the O's play the Yanks. (apparently, someone GAVE him the tix). So, this is why he cant have his kids on Friday night.
Last night, I found out that if he doesnt go to the required, court ordered Parenting class that is being held tonight, our divorce will take longer. Yes, we cant get our divorce decree until class is completed.
So, knowing full well that he knew nothing about this, I text him to tell him.
He text this to me today when he found out I was right:
Three hrs. missin out with kids again. cant wait til this is over!
He is actually complaining that he cant see his kids tonight because he has this parenting class tonight, but is not seeing his kids Friday because he and his gf are going out of town for the day!!! OH I AM SO ANGRY!!!!!
Breathe, just breathe.
Keep this in mind. He asked for the kids Wed, Thurs, Sat and Sun nights. NOT Friday. He is taking his F-ING GF to Baltimore, three hours away, to see the O's play the Yanks. (apparently, someone GAVE him the tix). So, this is why he cant have his kids on Friday night.
Last night, I found out that if he doesnt go to the required, court ordered Parenting class that is being held tonight, our divorce will take longer. Yes, we cant get our divorce decree until class is completed.
So, knowing full well that he knew nothing about this, I text him to tell him.
He text this to me today when he found out I was right:
Three hrs. missin out with kids again. cant wait til this is over!
He is actually complaining that he cant see his kids tonight because he has this parenting class tonight, but is not seeing his kids Friday because he and his gf are going out of town for the day!!! OH I AM SO ANGRY!!!!!
Breathe, just breathe.
KICK KICK
I'm a good kicker.
Thank God Im going to counseling this afternoon!
Let him feel like a shit inside for saying no to the Friday offer.
I think I will do that RIGHT NOW!!
You r upset not seeing kids 2nite so take them friday nite. Oh THATS rite, Urgoing to a GAME so u cant take them that nite.
Sending it now!
Gotta go to session with counselor. Be back later.
I must be insane but half the shit people worry about, get pissed about and vent about seems so avoidable. Why bother with half of it. Just me, my personality, I realize. Just seems like such an easier route to go.
Diem - I know he's been an ass, but - Most of us have events we'd like to go to that may take us away from our kids on occasion. I can see having tickets to a concert (or other event) but still being sorry I had to miss seeing the kids earlier in the week.
I guess I'm just saying don't make yourself crazy over everyday stuff- you have enough on your plate.
I was angry because he had nerve to complain about not being able to see his kids tonight because of a court ordered issue, yet, he sees no problem not seeing them on the friday he is supposed to for reasons he HAS control over.
Im over it and am actually laughing, shaking my head in disbelief.
Its really his priorities that are so screwed up.
Im off to work. Have a good night all. I will be back to see what else you all have to say:)