Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My story: http://www.dailystrength.org/people/3039556/journal
I woke up in such a panic, my heart was beating fast and all of the sudden, the tears started to fall. I felt so alone in this apartment where we once lived together.
It's unfair that he was able to leave without dealing with anything, I had to take down all the pictures, delete all the videos, even throw out all the gifts I had given HIM, since he left them there in a garbage bag for me to see. I had to be the one deciding what to do with the wedding album and video.
Despite all of this, I woke up in a panic, because I don't know what it is but I still feel it was all my fault. I should of never put my hands on him or threatened him with a knife, no matter how angry I was at him. When will this get better?
It's just so painful to think that he is out there, not caring 1 inch about the 6 years we had. How is it possible for someone just do that?
I woke up in such a panic, my heart was beating fast and all of the sudden, the tears started to fall. I felt so alone in this apartment where we once lived together.
It's unfair that he was able to leave without dealing with anything, I had to take down all the pictures, delete all the videos, even throw out all the gifts I had given HIM, since he left them there in a garbage bag for me to see. I had to be the one deciding what to do with the wedding album and video.
Despite all of this, I woke up in a panic, because I don't know what it is but I still feel it was all my fault. I should of never put my hands on him or threatened him with a knife, no matter how angry I was at him. When will this get better?
It's just so painful to think that he is out there, not caring 1 inch about the 6 years we had. How is it possible for someone just do that?
I felt like it was all my fault because there was no one else taking responsibility for it - so I put it all on me. It took time to put things into perspective. I sure wasn't perfect in my marriage, but it wasnt all my fault. There were two people in the relationship.
It will get better with time. There isnt a set day that you can determine that. Time will determine it.
I dont know how its possible for someone to do it - I still ask that same question over 3 years later - all I know is my life is much more at peace and gone in a better direction now that I have the toxicity out of it.
xoxo
I know how bad it can be. My marriage wasn't great but I tried the best I could and in the end, she blamed me.
I don't know when things will start to turn for you but I do know that you will be a much stronger person because of this. I do know that your life will be different. I like to think that through all the heartache, you will have just as much happiness again. I know how hard it is to wake up already in a mood. Try to keep yourself busy and get through the day the best you can. Everyday is one closer to a better life. Good luck and warm hugs to you.