Today I am telling myself that I need to appreciate all of the great things in my life and not think about the things that are missing (ie, my STBX). Focusing on my STBX's absence and the pain he caused doesn't do anything to benefit me. I need to silence the little voice that pops up when I am having a good time and says "wouldn't it be nice if STBX were here enjoying this with you?" Well he isn't and it probably wouldn't be nicer. His loss. The man I married doesn't exist anymore and my STBX would only try to steal my happiness and suck out my lifeforce if he were here with me around all of this great stuff.
That is all.
That is all.
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