Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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manuel313 10/25/2016

My wife just walked out on me after six years. I still love her, problem is in all the six years she has been flirting and doing God knows what with other men. Three days ago I just walked home and found that she had packed and left…she didn’t even leave a note and then she blocked me in social media and her phone too. I can’t sleep and am not even eating… has anyone gone through this and can you help me recover…I know am stupid coz to be honest I will still take her back in a heartbeat

Tonell18 10/25/2016

The not knowing will drive you crazy, it's had me up this morning since 4am...it gets better tho. After a while the sleepless nights gets better & your appetite returns. It's no use wanting someone who doesn't want you.
Join a support group, see a therapist, take care of yourself. Do stuff, keep yourself busy. Life has gets better after this. Hugs

1Daatatime 10/25/2016

I haven't been through exactly what your going through but I've been through the stages of grief too many times in my life. Your first step is too get past anger and on to acceptance. There is someone out there that will appreciate and love you and only you. Doesn't sound like this woman is really interested in a monogamous relationship with anyone. I'm going through the not eating, not sleeping myself. I have no friends or relatives so my only support is this group 75 cattle and 4 dogs. Keep your head up and remind yourself that you are a person of value and you will make it through... one day at a time.

manuel313 10/25/2016

i appreciate this guys...its funny how sleep and appetite just goes out the window and by 4 am one is up as though you are suppose to be else where....the feeling is annoying especially not even being willing to let go in as much as she is toxic...its even worse knowing that am going through this and she might be on another mans arms tonight sleeping like a baby!

mirandac 10/25/2016

Toxic relationships take longer to move thru

Keep reaching out and get into therapy for
Just for yourself, join a divorce care.org group.

Start attending Church, go to a gym, anything
You can do without having to be all happy. That
Only makes you feel lonelier.

Reach out to loving caring healthy people Stay
away from negative ones they only bring you
down further. HUGS

miltie1916 10/28/2016

I have never gone through this but I do NOT think you are stupid for wanting to take your wife back.

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