i move out of my exes house next week. we were together 4 years and bought a house together, but he broke up with me after a big fight 2 months ago, and im finally on my feet and ready to move out.  its sad because in july we picked out this house together and bought it, and then decorated it, and instead of working through our argument he threw our relationship away.  Neither of us were unfaithful, but apparently he said he was unhappy the whole relationship.. seems wierd that i didnt see the unhappiness set in. I saw differences in communication that each of us had to work on, but thats it. in an instant, my best friend, someone i enjoyed just sitting on the couch with every night, my travel buddy, my athletic buddy, my partner in every decision has decided to end things... this sucks... i cared deeply for him.  why would someone rather end the relationship rather than work on the communication issues?