So for about 5 months I have been dating this older man the first 3 months had its peaks and valleys but it made me know that I wanted to be with him when I went back home for 3 months.Now 2 months gone and 1 more to go until I see him again.He told me on line last night that he wasn't sure. More like when I asked him how is me and him he said he didn't know.He claims he has a lot of problems and his children (2 girls) are the most important things in his life. Him and his ex wife are going through a messy breakup still. And I know how much it drains him and like he told me last night, he is tired and not sure when it will end with her. Things were so good when we were together and now that we are apart I know for him deep down he feels the same for me.But last night really was hurtful. I don't know if we are still together or not.Please help me I don't know what to think. For the first time in a while him and I together is really good, we make each other laugh. But I don't know where we stand at all. What do I do? Please help me I cant eat or sleep for it is now a full day since we last talked.
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