Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have been dating this guy for 3.5 years and I hate to say it but he has cheated several times and stupid me keeps taking him back. We have lived together for the last year and he has been going out of town alot due to his job. He went to PA 2 months ago and there was one night I couldn't get ahold of him and he gave me this story and of course I beleived him. He left last week and again one night I couldn't get ahold of him I called him / texted him called his room etc. The next morning he texted and said he went to the casino and was drinking and didn't wnt to tell me b/c he was going to drink. He said he loved me but sometimes I care to much and he just wanted trust. Sunday I checked his messages and there was a girl on there telling him to call her I got the number and called her and asked her abt them and of course she had no idea abt me. So when i asked him abt her he said that he has felt trapped with me for the last year and if he would of told me he wanted out I would of freaked, so this girl texted me the next morning and wanted to talk. She said that he told her tht he told me to leave him alone and he was just going to tell me that so I wouldn't harass her b/c I was crazy. He told her so many lies and said he hadn't seen me in a couple of months which is a lie b/c he lives with me I told her everything he had in his suitcase. She kept going on how beautiful she is and can have any man she wanted and that he has bought everything and even bought her flowers. The night I called him she was in his room. Am I really crazy like he making me out to be? He told me he is done with her but is he really or is he just telling me that so he will have a place to come back home to?
This joker is every womans wordt nightmare, and you must do what you have to do t get away and stay from him. NO CONTACT!!!!!!!! He's a liar, an so far you have belived his lies. He will keep trying, because it has workded before. You must put your foot down and toss him.
Get absolutely rid of him and then come here to cry, sort out your feelings, whatever you need to do to stay strong.. (((HUGS)))
May I suggest you join th codependency support group as well? They may hep you get some of the garbage this guy has fed you out of your system.
If a friend or sister shared with you that the guy they cared for was treating her this way what would you say to her?
If you hit the lottery for several million dollars would you go or would you stay with him?
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