Here we go again. How can any sane human leave their family, especially a 1 and 3 yr old. Your husband just had too much of what ever was going on at home and he thinks he has the right to abandon his family. This right to leave, for a father and husband does not exist. I suggest you call the police and have him arrested and jailed. The charges: being a weak idiot, breaking his marriage commitment, abandoning his children, causing undue sadness and heartache, imposing financial hardship on three victims, not providing a duty of care to a mother and two children, not completing his household duties, and contributing to societies family demise.

Honestly I want to come get you and those babies and help you. Mental illness is harc on families, especially postpartum. Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. I'm hoping you can reach out to family and friends and you can get help and support. ((Hugs))

Clover, don't try to wrap your head around that foolishness. I don't know what would make him leave and serve you with seperation papers. Try to pull yourself together for the kids. You are a good mom, continue to be. Sending you a hug.

Just remember it's not you it's him. Your baby is 1 years old and if you had postpartum depression you are not well. If he can't be with you through for better and for worse it's his fault. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Cry and just let it out but be strong for your kids.

Completely his fault, and his loss. Don't let someone who is so ignorant bring you down. In time, you'll realize him leaving will be a good thing. It will allow you not to have to live with someone who has no idea how good he has it. So sorry this is happening. Hang in there.

I am sorry. I am in the same boat. I hate this stupid boat.