Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My Ex e-mailed me late last night and informed me that she "will be at the house 9am" to get her stuff and OUR 50inch HDTV. I talked to police and posted for advice on here....and She showed up with MY landlord, who tried to get in and I called the cops. The cops sided with me and gave her 15 mins. to get her stuff, she left with the last of her cloths and her photo's. The told that was it, she had no reason to come back,she has to take me to court over the T.V. She found out that she no longer has control over me!!!!! I AM FREEEEE!!!!!!!
So why don't I feel as sad as I thought I would? The first 2-3 days I went through some feelings of loss, but know I don't seem to feel anything, I am not even pi$$ed with her anymore. Am I heartless or was it "over so long ago that I'm over it already...or, has it not hit me yet??
So why don't I feel as sad as I thought I would? The first 2-3 days I went through some feelings of loss, but know I don't seem to feel anything, I am not even pi$$ed with her anymore. Am I heartless or was it "over so long ago that I'm over it already...or, has it not hit me yet??
Some days are better than others. It's like a roller coaster of emotions and after a while, it'll start to flatten out.
Congratulations for being firm.
It's that aha moment when you finally realize that you can "stand up and own your power!"
Good for you :)