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So my ex husband or should i say still husband as we are not divorced yet has contacted our older son after one year. when he left us back in April 2010 for his ex girlfriend from 22 yrs ago he moved to Florida with her and left it all behind like it meant nothing. My two sons then 19 and 20 wrote him emails stating they wanted nothing to do with him when they received emails from him.
He remained silent for one full year and just recently contacted our older son. He really needs to be contacting me to discuss divorce proceedings but has not. (Yet) My younger son now 20 lives with me and just recently had a birthday but he did not contact him. I imagine its because he has no phone number nor does he know where we live who knows.
He remained silent for one full year and just recently contacted our older son. He really needs to be contacting me to discuss divorce proceedings but has not. (Yet) My younger son now 20 lives with me and just recently had a birthday but he did not contact him. I imagine its because he has no phone number nor does he know where we live who knows.
Karenhopeful
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deleted_user
Don't let him put your kids in the middle. Get his email address and email him yourself. You need his address so you can file for divorce if he isn't going to do it. You need to get rid of his sorry self.
sandysan5743
He deserted you. I believe there is some way to divorce him without his address - you have to publish something in newspapers in the area he is currently living - contact an attorney and find out what you need to do.
rbsingle1959
I thought for sure he might have contacted our son to find out if i was still working at the same place so he could serve me the papers at work but to no avail. Even if that was the case; if he was to serve me at the job how long does it take if he knows where i work? Why did he really contact my son? For what reason?
sandysan5743
The day my ex was kicked out of the house for his affair was the last time I saw him. Some men are just like that, they can walk away with no regrets. Don't waste any more time wondering why. Do you want the divorce? Is there specific reason you want a divorce? It's less messy than remaining married but apart.... Have you ever contacted any attorney?
rbsingle1959
I surely did contact a lawyer last yr when he left. He left in April and i contacted a lawyer in August. However or whatever the reason financially i burdened and could not pay it and figured since he had the affair he should pay for it and i should not make it so simple for him since i am not marrying at this time. I am seeing somebody now for about 6 mts but i believe he will want to marry that woman and therefore will be forced to do it.
lovingmyselfirst
my stbx abandoned us 4/18/11 after 20 years of marriage, for a 25 y/o piece of nothing. after he left i found so much evidence he had been unfairhful all along. My 3 sons want NOTHING to do with him and he wonders why...not seeing him is much better for all of us...
rbsingle1959
wow he left you on 4/18/11. mine left us on 4/17/10. We surely have alot in common. I also have two boys and he left me for his ex girlfriend of 22 yrs ago. Sounds like a midlife crisis to me. How the heck did he think he could pick up where he left off and keep going like nothing happen. People change in 22 yrs and then he had stated to me she left him for somebody else. Who is lying and who left who for what reason. Sounds like they deserve each other. I rather not hear from him at all. It makes it easier for all of us.
lovingmyselfirst
with miy stbx is more like a whole life crisis, he lived a double (or triple) life all along
rbsingle1959
so sorry to hear that. sometimes i feel like i could actually cry tears of blood. the pain is so intense. They could really put on an act its incredible how sneaky and deceitful they can be. i share your pain.
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