can you get assistance paying daycare? I know this state and other's have programs for that....I don't really know what the qualifications are, cause I don't make squat so I qualify.....but you might want to look into those programs....daycare is really expensive, I know......my parents are paying it until my assistance is approved.....

Try calling your local legal aid office and explaining your situation.

I have absolutely no extra $$$ for atty fees either. I found my atty (he is great) through a woman I work for...it is her brother!!! He agreed to a couple of payments for the retainer fee. There are attys. out there willing to do that...just go for free consultations and find one that will accept payments.

You might also qualify for legal aid.

Your county should have a social assistance office. You can apply for subsidized day care with them. They may also be able to point you in the right direction for legal assistance. Generally legal aid is difficult to get for a divorce.

That said. Contact your local YWCA, and any and all womens groups in your area. Some attorneys do pro bono work, or will accept payments.

Try the United way in your area a lot of states have a pro bono project through the united way. They will give you a class on setting up your paperwork on your own, and they will also ad your name to their list for pro bono lawyers. If that is not available contact a paralegal in your area, they can do all of the paperwork for you and you only need to file and show up for your hearing date. If you choose a paralegal be sure to sit down with them the same way you would an attorney. They do not have all of the same rights as an attorney, but the majority that are available have worked for attorney's in the past so they do share their knowledge.