Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
How do I get over loving my wife of 19 years, together for 23 years? Weve had have issues for the last few years. Most likely she will want a divorce next year. Thats what we talked about tonight. Im still so much in love with her. She does not feel the same way. More or less she loves me BUT, not in love with me anymore, the old clich. Im sure there is no one else. Im devastated. any advice. She been my wife and best friend for all those years
I always resisted counseling and now I regret it. I may have still ended up divorced, but at least I would have worked out my issues. Find a counselor who is promarriage. It can't hurt.
Sorry for your pain. Life is so unfair. I hate the love, but not in love. I think some people's definition is warped. If it isn't rockets and fireworks some don't see it as love. If it is true love it matures, grows and changes.
Just be sure that you do not cry and beg and plead to no end, which is what your instinct will tell you to do. The crying and begging thing does not work.
I agree, couples counselling is a good idea, and if she won't go then go by yourself to help you deal with the grief and the emotions.
I am so sorry that you have to go through this. But, I know one thing here, if I can survive thsi so can you. It is hard and painful but it gets better and you will survive this.