Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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sothestorygoes 03/13/2017

I am great alone or away. But when he comes near me, all self control, rules, wrongs, rights slip away. I love him. The situations in our life were created by the many choices he made. I am the one who has to pick up the pieces working to move forward. Which seems I do a pretty good job at, as long as he is out of the picture and stays away.

Slips back in and BOOM!!! Same ole same ole.

beatingtheblues2 03/13/2017

Can't say I can relate exactly, but over the past 24 hours I've been wondering if I'm co-dependent -- I need to do more research because I don't think I'm a classic case. What you're saying here sounds like it might be co-dependency, based on my limited knowledge of the subject. Maybe you could look into that support group on DS and see if any of it rings true for you, and if so, what you can do to manage the relationship.

mirandac 03/13/2017

I think we talked before. alanon meetings
Will help you a lot, to gather your inner
Strength and courage.

I went for two years before my ex left me
and i was no longer a doormat by then,
HUGS

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