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I've posted on here several times, some of you know me already. I just can't come to terms how my 30 year old wife left me for a 22 year old kid who works at sonic flipping burgers with nothing to offer and has already had sex with him after only being separated from me since June 20th, and the fact that she is already telling everyone that they are in a relationship is appaling to me. She claims that it's ok because when we were dating we had sex in the first couple weeks, but c'mon freaking pyscho! We're not even divorced much less even a month apart and I get left for a damn kid. My biggest concern is my stepson who i've raised since he was 3 and is now 10, what the hell is she going to tell him when he gets back from being on vacation with grandma? How will she explain who this boy is with his mom? How can a woman have sex with someone that fast when not even 30 days ago she was someones wife?
after the divorce, it gets easier. hang in there.
First of all, I think you have to be the sane person here, for you sons' sake, cause your wife is not thinking with HER head. She's so wrapped up in burger boy she's not going to be there for her son.
She showed her true colors and she'll do it to this Sonic kid too; so I'd try to get custody of your stepson so he's not bounced around in his childhood and teens, stays with a stable man and grows up with values.
I know what I need to do, you guys have been telling me all along and so has my family and friends. I may have not included this tid bit of information is that we were trying to concieve for many years, and now if she end's up getting pregnant by this little f*cker, that's gonna really piss me off! I know some of you are going to give me a verbal kick in the ass, cut me some slack I know what must be done. I've even called to set up a session with a counselor to help me get through this
be a good man, rudy. stand proud of trying to be a good husband. there is no shame in it for you if your wife goes off the deep end and runs. that is her problem, not yours.
your job is to work with what you have in front of you. :)
this is not an unheard of scenario given the circumstances
I know thats cold comfort
I apologize
I get behind Faithful's sentiment, that it is not a comment on you as a man
but her
i'm sure to her, getting involved with a younger man-boy sounds exciting and sexy at the moment. but, mark my words, it's only a matter of time before he winds up leaving her for someone more his age. she's living in a fantasy world right now.
Verbal ass kicking, c'mon!
look forward, dude.