Breakups & Divorce Support Group

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Pain.

elainejackson
elainejackson
Heart break hurts worse then breaking any bone in your body. Well it sure feels that way. Being told that you are nothing to the person you have fallen in love with just rips your heart out and you feel as though you are stupid and used?
What am I to even to say to that ?
How do we continue on "having fun" ?
It is the worst being the person who cares more.
ESL12
ESL12
Sorry to hear of your pain... I wish I could say it gets easier, it will in time I supose... My wife and I are similar situation to yours, I care deeply and very much in love with her, but she no longer feels the same... Its been a month and it hasn't gotten easier. So just know your not alone. I hear time heals all... so now I wait....
chedge05
chedge05
I feel your pain and I am sorry. I am there too. Me and my now ex have tried and tried and just can't get ahead. We tried being friends, and we can't even do that because there is too much hurt. She sees it so easy to move on and I love her and her boys so much. I love her and I don't get the love in return.

People say you are happy by trying to move on, hang out with friends and family, pick up a hobby, I know it's near impossible, but it can be done.

As @ESL12 said, time heals all. Good luck to the both of you, I know how it feels.