it's going on 3 years for me... so far no ASPLOSION...

I'll let you know though

My head exploded whilst in the midst of the "I still love you, but I'm not in love with you..." I had been sitting in the living room watching a concert. He was absent, as usual. Sleeping somewhere else in the house. I raised the volume over and over and over until the walls were shaking. He calmly came into the room and looked at me like he was going to puke. That was it - my head exploded!!!!!!!!!!!! I ran upstairs to the loft where all of his precious Bills shit was and began destroying it. I tore signed pictures off the wall and tossed them down the stairs. I snatched his clock off the wall and toss it out the window. I ripped his Bills flag and lame Jim Kelly jersey. I've never felt better.... let er rip

I am wondering the same thing...I head feels full all the time. I can't seem to quiet my mind...trying meditation but heck even a book right niow is a mission.

My head exploded the day I realized I was in love with someone who didnt give a crap about me. Although he said he did and still does, he didn't think twice about my feelings while he was seeing other women and then coming home to me.

mine just keeps exploding. i think well it should be done soon so i can clean it up then it explodes some more.

Was around month 3 or 4 for me. Happened at work, I think I've got most of it cleaned up now (month 7). Use lots of paper towels and 409 spray.

I'm using a sham wow.

My head exploded the day I found out he had actually been cheating with an 18 year old employee. That day I couldn't stop crying. I cried all day at the office. It was horrible.
I guess I cleaned it up with kleenex?
My head still churns all the time, but now about different things. Mostly new people I am meeting, so it's not bad churning any more - most of the time.

no explosion yet... its coming tho... i can feel the pressure building... i recommend paper towel chlorox cleanup

Through it all...I never exploded. I guess I'm too calm of a dude. I think when ever I felt like a melt down, I went running or to the gym.

Martingala used the best word, I think, CHURNING. It's kind of like the old vinegar and baking soda thing. I find that clean up involves lots of paper towels. Oh, and cookie dough and blackberry wine .

It happened when I saw him on the streets with an other girl, just two weeks after the break up. And when they both ran away from me when they saw me. I think she laughed a little at me too.

It was ticking clock explosion. I had a late reaction. I cryed a few days after, continuously.

Mine exploded one day after work, came home sat on the living room floor and cried for hours went through 2 boxes of kleenex, then calmly went to the bathroom and threw up.

Actually, mine felt like it has imploded on itself. I felt like that a week or two ago. Now, it's just numb.

My heart exploded when he absolutely refused (again) to not go to the woman-friend's house for the weekend. He had already been away for work for weeks and was leaving again in days (again.) My head exploded when I told him he would be served with divorce papers.

I'm still walking around covered in gook. Can't clean it up, but I'm getting soooo much better at making it invisible.