jessa,

The question is, do you want him back in your life now after all this?
If not, then let him go.

I'm a boy myself and I haven't been able to date for the last 6 months after my breakup, but there are many who use dating as a coping mechanism.

What I'd say, don't try to make him jealous and all. Be yourself. And if the guy can apologize 1 day and screw someone the next, it should make your decision much easier.

My heart goes out for you. Knowing that your ex is doing $#% with someone is a hard, shitty feeling.

I understand your pain. It doesn't mean he did not mean the nice things or apologies he said to you,...it means he clearly is confused and not trustworthy. I'm separated and go on Facebook looking at them picture of who I think my husband is seeing. Can barely focus sometimes and almost break into tears worrying and being jealous, It's horrible. You need to decide whether to just call it quits and move on or discuss this with him and let him know how you feel. If he is your ex he isn't cheating, even though it still hurts

On one of our breakups (we had many), my ex had sex with two women that he'd only gone on one or two dates with..he almost would have slept with a third. Turns my stomach. I have to wonder how much integrity he could've had and how casually he viewed sex if he could do something like that.

Funny, cause I am finally getting over pining for him. I'm not quite healed but I think it's happening now, thank goodness..and I can't quite tell you why I would have mourned someone like him

I think you will.look back and see that somehow, you were better off without him.

My ex was a serial cheater. Not only was he sleeping with two of his married co-workers but also had many others. He moved one mistress in 3 days after I moved out and they married her just a few months after our divorce. I too when I found out her name went on Facebook and was shocked she was documenting their whole relationship while he was still married to me. She knew he was married and kept telling her family and friends how she was going to win him over and steal him from me. Who brags about sleeping with a married man?? Only positive thing about the Facebook posts is I sent the link to my lawyer and in the end I walked away with everything!!!...not half but everything!!! And with alimony in a state that doesn't have alimony!!
So yes...I can definitely relate!! But I realized there was nothing I could do about his actions while we were married, that I couldn't change the past. I also couldn't do anything about what they were doing now...all I could do was find the courage and the strength to move forward. I know now that I deserve better and you do too!!

Only people with no self esteem cheat with married people. We are all much better off. And find happiness in the fact he will cheat on her too. I can give him me exs number, she will mess up whatever he has going on right now.