Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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aggiedolphin823 01/09/2009

Ok so I thought I was doing ok with getting the ex-bf's stuff packed up that is until last night when I finished and had it all in the car and it hurts WAY more than I thought it would. I am getting ready to leave to take it the 3 hours to his grandma's house - I can't write on here on my phone but can check messages so someone please convince me that I am strong enough to handle this because I don't feel like I am right now - I feel like I am gonna lose my mind.

deleted_user 01/09/2009

"I feel like I am gonna lose my mind."

I get that feeling at least once every 48 hours.
I am still here, though...
Not sure how, but I am.

deleted_user 01/09/2009

YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!!!!! (((HUGS))) It's hard but you can.....just keep telling yourself you're a strong person and you can do it!!!!!!! Later you'll look back and say....that wasn't so bad....and I survived!

deleted_user 01/09/2009

its ok and its normal

you wont lose your mind..it just feels like..this whole thing is hard and it sucks

but big proud smile for packing and getting rid of stuff

one more step in reclaiming YOUR LIFE

deleted_user 01/09/2009

You can do it

sfsoccermom 01/09/2009

YOU CAN DO IT! STAY STRONG! WE ARE BEHIND YOU.

JudM 01/09/2009

Tell yourself all the reasons your doing it.
that should help you in the drive. Tell yourself why you need to do it.

deleted_user 01/09/2009

You can do those things and stillhave those feelings as well. I know that you are doing something that you may not want to . But you can do it.
I have those feelings of I cant do this its to hard all the time. But I do what I have to anyways. It will get easeir.
Matt

deleted_user 01/09/2009

Oh yeah, I'm still going through that. Take the stuff to him and close the chapter. Do it the rigtht way. This way you can sleep at night knowing that all is taken care of.

Good luck and we support you.

~Idio

deleted_user 01/09/2009

You can do this! Like others have said it will bring some closeure. And yeah I have been where you are. It hurts but its one more step to healing and moving on with your life. Hang in there! You will be done with all his stuff soon enough! (((big hugs)))

deleted_user 01/09/2009

Hold your head up, be strong, you can do this. (((Hugs)))

deleted_user 01/09/2009

Hang in there, you can do it. Just one step at a time. We're all with you. HUGS!

deleted_user 01/09/2009

You can do this girl! You are a strong woman!

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