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Last night I got the last of the stuff I *had* to have out of the house. The rest of it I could care less about. He is moving this weekend in with his mom and putting his stuff in storage. He told me if he found more of my stuff he would put it in the corner and I could come get it when he got moved. If he does it, he does it, if he doesnt, oh well no big deal.
I feel fantastic!!! It has been 8 weeks since my life started over for me.
I know that I am not the norm when it comes to divorce, but when I emotionally and mentally prepared my self for this day for the last 6 years the physical staying away has been easier. I tried my hardest to make it work but his addictions were more important than our marriage.
I have already spent time mourning over it before I even moved out.
To those who are struggling it does get easier and no matter if you were the leaver or the leavee (is that a word) you can make your self better and stronger through the pain. I know it doesn't seem like it now but it will come and you will look back with sorrow and sadness but know you will truly be okay!
Happy THURSDAY!
I feel fantastic!!! It has been 8 weeks since my life started over for me.
I know that I am not the norm when it comes to divorce, but when I emotionally and mentally prepared my self for this day for the last 6 years the physical staying away has been easier. I tried my hardest to make it work but his addictions were more important than our marriage.
I have already spent time mourning over it before I even moved out.
To those who are struggling it does get easier and no matter if you were the leaver or the leavee (is that a word) you can make your self better and stronger through the pain. I know it doesn't seem like it now but it will come and you will look back with sorrow and sadness but know you will truly be okay!
Happy THURSDAY!
I know what you mean, that once you are leaving, the "stuff" seems less important than everything else. Once I moved out of that environment thta had become toxic for me, immediately I begin to feel some relief for being out of there and at that point, I didn't care much about what happened to any stuff I left behind (and still don't--although, I do plan to at least get my DVD's and bicycle back :-)
I'm happy for you!