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so sad

lmecklen
lmecklen
My bf of 7 years cheated on me alot. We recently broke up and he joined a dating website even before we broke up. I found out he isnt on the site anymore and is dating someone new. It sounds like he wants to be faithfulto her. Why her but he couldnt be faithful to me. It hurts so bad :(
deleted_user
deleted_user
guess what? He won't be faithful to her either....Thank God you weren't married to him. Be glad he is gone, you don't have to go thru all kinds of crap like most of us are going thru....You sound very young, you have your whole life ahead of you... go out and buy a dress, and take good care of yourself... don't take him back, and go thru another 7 years of hell...i know you feel like you prob want to die, but gues what again, he ain't worth it. In time, you will feel much better.

meyers
deleted_user
deleted_user
I totally agree. Trust me, he is not going to have a good relationship with her. Take some time and focus on yourself... Get happy and proud of yourself again and a better man will find you. Guaranteed.
lance139169
lance139169
He cheated on you a lot, he'll cheat on his new girlfriend too. Men like him have a moral deficiency.

I have to agree with meyers that the most fortunate thing for you is that you weren't married. Its so much more difficult to undo a relationship if you are.

By being with him for seven years, and I assume faithful, you have proven that you are of high morals and will be a desireable catch for a worthy man.