I'm sorry that you're hurting, I share your pain also been through something similar. The best thing you can do I know you're not ready to MoveOn take it day by day some days are good and I'm a tell you right now some days are bad. Find friends that are in a similar situation or friends that will encourage you. Keep busy, I find myself always thinking about my ex every time I woke up when I went to bed,, specially when I was driving to and from work . Take time to do things you couldn't do before, take time to work on yourself like working out getting healthy you can get your mind off some things. If you think about it too much it brings it right back to that place believe me I know I still go through it every day wondering why wasn't I good enough for him then some days I have my good days and I think he didn't deserve my love. I hope you find some peace in your life but I know the struggle and it will take a while to get over it right now it doesn't seem like you would but you will.

I understand what you are going thru , you think everything is going good and perfect and you just can't believe the person that you love the most gives up on the relationship like nothing , like they just don't care. Everyone keeps telling me to give it time , and I really do think that that's the only thing that will help us . Meanwhile every time you think about her , also think about how much she is hurting you, and how you do not do that to someone you love . I need to take my own advise and move on. Stay strong

Thanks for understanding what i'm going through and for the advices, and i hope you get over your problems too
Preciousruby22 i will do everything you said i think that's my way out
Jc2230 i keep reminding myself how much she is hurting me and i will keep reminding myself so i can stay strong
Thanks for the help guys i really appreciate it.

I'm sorry that you are going through these stressful feelings. I have been through similar ones and you are right that it can be tough to experience. I agree with what was said upthread though, that taking it day by day is a really good approach. You can still cherish the good memories you had, but just not let the sadder memories hurt the happier memories. If you are not ready to have another romantic relationship, that is totally understandable. In the meantime, you can always be looking for other things in life to love and connect with. Things like art, nature, music and similar things can really give us a whole new appreciation for life. In any case, I hope you feel better and that things continue to improve for you.

I'm sorry you're here. A persons first love is often the most genuine love they will ever give. I still remember mine. I wrote letters, poems, confessed every feeling I had without any inhibitions. Since then, I've had a wall up in a way. My advice is to find something to occupy your time, Something with a social aspect is even better. Find a new hobby, or volunteer. Volunteering is a good way to help you feel good about yourself, and gain perspective. Contributing to the world in a postive way feels good, being able to take care of yourself is a luxury a lot of people would give anything for. The ability to be independent, is something we all take for granted. Not everyone is so lucky. Even though our hearts are broken, we're still blessed.