Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
ive been reading alot of peoples problems and it seems, hey im not the only one. hahaa. anyway im 36 been married since 97, have 3 kids 13,7, and 3. after about 4 years we was married she started cheating with her boss. 9 years later i found out. and found out the 3 year old was not mine. spent 2 years after that crying every day and went from 164 lbs to about 120 in just a few months. skip some details and fast forward a bit. after 2 years we got back together, never got divorced. after 6 months of being together. oh snap! she started cheating on me with....... my sisters husband. i found out after a lil over a year.
im doing ok i guess. better than the last time. missing my kids like crazy. there is no issues with me seeing the kids, only im pissed that this guy has her and them living in a motel. he mows yards and sells scrap to sell for money.
i dont really have any friends. i spent most of my time working and going home and being with the kids and trying to spend time with her. i know im not all at fault in the fall out of my marriage.
my fears are with people now. im not sure if i can trust making new friends or what happens when i meet someone? will i be able to trust them and not have the fear she will run off with a so called friend?
im doing ok i guess. better than the last time. missing my kids like crazy. there is no issues with me seeing the kids, only im pissed that this guy has her and them living in a motel. he mows yards and sells scrap to sell for money.
i dont really have any friends. i spent most of my time working and going home and being with the kids and trying to spend time with her. i know im not all at fault in the fall out of my marriage.
my fears are with people now. im not sure if i can trust making new friends or what happens when i meet someone? will i be able to trust them and not have the fear she will run off with a so called friend?
But there are some really good people out in the world that are desperate to cross path with someone that is a stand up guy.
You gotta be willing
You are a standup guy
You can't keep that to yourself
yeah but how do i know if i am making friends with a good person and not someone who will turn around and stick the knife in my back?
my own sister, her husband, my wife, friends who i thought were close. all people ive known for many years. turned on me. "Trust" is a big issue with me now.
im the person who pulls over and helps someone with car trouble even if im going to be late for work or an appointment. i know im a good person. seems like everyone i meet sees that and uses that against me.
I will never be with a cheater I don't care how reformed he things he is!!!
I know most of that is crap and it comes from my pain and anguish. I'm already 47, by the time I finish picking you the pieces of my broken heart it may be too late anyway.
Hi all!! Allow me to introduce myself! I'm Debbie Downer!!
i don't accept that a person can go from being that horribly selfish to someone that understands and accepts what a promise means.
he happesn to think that someone who cheats in a relationship and then doesn't have the backbone to try and fix the relatioship should in dog talk "get fixed" !!!!
i tell ya that dog the things he dictates for my to type haha