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There seems to be a lot of discussion tonight about dating & I have an issue I'd just like to hear opinions about...
Been separated for 18 months. Met a guy online just before Christmas & we met once for a couple of hours just after Christmas. Since then, we talk on the phone every night & have grown very close.
Last night, he came by my house & we spent the first real amount of time together. (We live in different cities & our weekends with kids are opposite eachother which is why it took so long to spend time together)
I have been attracted to his personality for the past 5 months & really do care a great deal for him. And here comes the "but"... But, there were things last night that I wasn't attracted to.. the way he kissed... & something really superficial.. the way he moves his hands in general, like when he's talking...
Could these be legitimate deal breakers or am I looking for little things maybe to avoid something more serious.. I don't know & am very confused right now.. My logical side is telling me to smarten the hell up... What do you guys think?
Been separated for 18 months. Met a guy online just before Christmas & we met once for a couple of hours just after Christmas. Since then, we talk on the phone every night & have grown very close.
Last night, he came by my house & we spent the first real amount of time together. (We live in different cities & our weekends with kids are opposite eachother which is why it took so long to spend time together)
I have been attracted to his personality for the past 5 months & really do care a great deal for him. And here comes the "but"... But, there were things last night that I wasn't attracted to.. the way he kissed... & something really superficial.. the way he moves his hands in general, like when he's talking...
Could these be legitimate deal breakers or am I looking for little things maybe to avoid something more serious.. I don't know & am very confused right now.. My logical side is telling me to smarten the hell up... What do you guys think?
I think if he is a bad kisser then he needs to mooove along....NEXT!
I think if you like his personality then give him a chance.
Yes, you may sabotaging yourself because you're afraid of getting hurt again. Maybe you're not as ready to date as you think?
No worries. See what happens. Don't over-analyze...