Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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jaclyn1973 09/07/2014

Every time I think I've got a handle on all of this, I find myself struggling again. I still miss him. I still love him. I still...well everything.

I feel like I've tried everything I can think of to put him out of my mind and heart. I've dated. I've prayed. I've been busy. I go out with friends. Nothing has worked. I still cry at night.The only time I am not hurting is when I am asleep. So whenever I just can't stand it anymore, I take a pill and sleep.

I'm trying to get a job as far away from him as possible. No luck, so far. I'm so tired of hurting, struggling, feeling this way.

New2this14 09/07/2014

I'm so sorry. I know exactly how you feel and the pain can be unreal. I'm trying to find my way through all this, but there doesn't seem to be an escape route. I just found this site today and think its great. No matter what time of day or night it is, someone is out there, probably going through something similar, but someone who cares. Know you're not alone. That's the only thing that's helped me through the last few days. ((hugs))

refurb 09/07/2014

your feelings are normal for a lot of us
how to manage them, well I'm still working on that
remember that you would not to another person the awful things that he has done to you

done to you

wrap your heart around that, heal from it and live

Missy73 09/07/2014

I empathize. I've lost all respect for my stbx and I find his actions vile and disgusting yet I still struggle with the loss. I'm trying to find a job back in the US but it has been a slow process. I would just about anything to speed this process along but apparently it can't be rushed. Be patient with yourself.

jaclyn1973 09/07/2014

We are coming in to Fall and the Festival season around here. So many awesome events to go to. but, I dont want to go if he and #4 are gonna be there. I just cannot do that. My friends dont tend to go to any of these things.

He and I used to go to these things every year. So much fun. I just cant....

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